Love and Peace

In the area of communication between people, 60% of what you are communicating towards others is displayed by your body language. 30% is by your tone. That means that 90% of what you are saying is not coming out of your mouth. This area of study is very broad and extensive, but here are 5 key signs to look out for in liars.

1. Eye Movements

When a person lies, one does not make any attempt to make eye contact with the other. In fact, one tries to avoid eye contact. It is in the human basic nature to not want to believe and look at the target at what one is saying for the fear of shame and being found out.

The eye also shifts towards the left side in an attempt to utilize the right side of the brain to be creative in the story that one is trying to present towards the other party. Key notes; one avoids eye contact and one’s eyes shifts towards the left.

2. Hand Gestures

When a person lies, one tends to move hands towards his mouth in order to cover or stop himself from saying what is being presented towards the other party. He may be scratching his nose, scratching the top lip in order to hide the fact that he is lying. One may also position his arms or hands in a cross arm manner, in order to defend himself against the possible accusation of being found out that one is lying.

3. Timing of Emotional Gestures

When a person lies in an example, fake laughter, small subtleties timings of emotional gesture is often off. For example, one may take a tad bit longer to laugh at the joke with his eyes when the laughter begins. These are small subtleties which give away a potential liar as one needs to consciously think about how to act logically on playing the part of a fake action. This therefore, leads to many cases of wrong timing in emotional gestures.

4. Verbal Content

A lie lacks details. Intercept topics discussed with many questions and further details about the current topic in the case where a lie may be in place. The less details one is unwilling to give for innocent reasons, the more likely one is lying.

5. Body Level Comfort

As one progresses deeper and deeper into the lie, the body comfort level starts to get more and more uncomfortable. This can be seen by frequent arms crossing, back of body commonly facing towards the presented audience or sweating seen on the forehead. In general, one has to be able to keep up with the story depending on the complications resulted in the lie.

Summary

Putting human body language understanding into conscious practice take a considerable amount of time and effort to do so. Being able to accurately read body language is treated commonly as what men would call a “women’s intuition”. Women on average, have better social consciousness of their surroundings as compared to men.

Although men can also develop this skill, it is rare unless one is commonly found in various social groups. Emotionally and psychologically speaking, men and women are not wired the same. Even with full understanding of the concepts of hard-wired thinking, the main reason as to why it is hard-wired shows itself in arguments between men and women.

As a lady, these are the eight basic signs you will notice in the character of your man, which will reveal to you he is truly in love with you. They are:

1. He cares about you.

When a man is in love with a woman, he want to know all about her. He truly cares about her and her feelings. If a man truly loves a woman, he feels bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. He doesn’t had to cheer her up because he want to, but because he can’t help it.

2. He can’t stop thinking about you.

He is consume by thoughts of you. You’re the last thing on his mind before he goes to sleep and first thing on his mind when he wakes up.

3. He doesn’t notice other women as much.

Although he can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when he’s in love, some of them tend to sleep under the radar, while others just pace in comparison to you. Furthermore, he doesn’t seem to be flirting half as much he used to. He is slowly realizing that you are often the only woman in the room who matters, and for some reason, that suits him just fine.

4. He doesn’t mind compromising.

There are times when he wants his way, but with you he’s different. Not that you ask him to, but he doesn’t mind missing his friend to be with you. And he find himself trying to incorporate you into his plans or altering them to accommodate you.

5. Other priorities takes a back seat.

His interest in work, and workaholic tendency of bringing his work on weekends to get ahead now seems a bit excessive to him. His ever-important “to do” list seems quite stagnant these days, as being with you always manages to render his other plans and obligations obsolete.

6. He love spending time with you.

He looks forward to seeing you, and doesn’t care much about what the two of you will be doing. He goes for a work with you, in the evening. Furthermore, when you are not together, he misses you and wishes you were spending time together.

7. He start thinking about the future and you’re in it.

It used to be that the future with a woman meant his date on weekends, but with you, the future seems infinite. Not only does he plan to see you this weekend, but he want to see you a year from now as well.

8. You are in his thoughts.

He calls you during the day because he was thinking of you or picks up something at the spur of the moment because he thought you would like it or it reminded him of you.

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Well, you’ve got your whole wedding well planned and all the nitty-gritty details are sorted, so what next? The daunting task of planning your honeymoon – it’s a trip you will definitely want to get right. The main reason for this is because you are planning for two and both of you must enjoy the trip. It is in fact your first trip as husband and wife, so you will want it to be memorable.

The first and most important thing to note is that perfection in any trip is a ruse. Expect the unexpected. How often do you plan a trip only to experience last minute changes such as flight delays? It is important to understand that these unexpected discoveries and changes tend to be a norm during travel.

It is therefore crucial that you do your homework prior to selecting an ideal resort. Decide on the trip type you are considering as well as the spending costs you are likely to incur. This will ensure that you cushion yourself from unrealistic dreams which may go well beyond your budget. This should obviously be done before you pick a travel agent.

Remain supple with your plans. This will enable you to easily change your plans when it suits you. For example, if you are aware of a discount promotion for a certain month, you could easily push your trip to be in tandem with the promotion. You could also consider scheduling a late flight as opposed to an early morning one to prevent omission of last minute details as you hustle and hurry to catch an early morning flight.

Be candid and straight forward about your honeymoon budget. Manage your expectations while at the same time ensuring you have fun during the trip. If you have a travel agent who tries to steer you toward a more expensive trip, hold you ground and do not budge.

While it’s true to say that you can take off on an impulse and go wherever you want, it is not really advisable to do that on a honeymoon. The excitement and craziness of beginning a new life may lead you to situations you wouldn’t find yourself in on a normal day.

However the main question many honeymooners ask themselves is “Where should we go?” Depending on you and your spouse’s persona, you may be able to make the perfect getaway choice obviously depending on your budget and time constraints.

If you are a nervous flyer or just resent travelling, consider a honeymoon that is close to home. You spend less time travelling and more time on each other. On the other hand if you are more of a travelling person, you should consider a cruise honeymoon. With a cruise honeymoon you and your spouse can sail for love practically anywhere the deep blue sea stretches.

If you are a beach enthusiast, consider a beach destination for your honeymoon where you can swim, surf and have a sunbath taking a great tan to work that everyone will be jealous about.

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Are you ready to settle down and find someone to love? Have you had it with dating an endless stream of guys who let you down and disappoint you? Are you ready to meet the man of your dreams? Most people reach the stage of life when they feel just like you do now. Men and women alike come to the understanding that they’ve got to find someone to love before it’s too late. No matter who you are, there’s sure to be someone out there who is a perfect match. Here’s how to meet the man of your dreams.

Understand Who You Are

If you don’t already have a grasp on who you are and which direction you want your life to take, it’s time to find that anchor and hang on. Who are you really? What are your most important hopes and dreams? Are you a traveler, or a homebody? Is education and a prestigious career high on your list, or would you rather live a simpler lifestyle?

Understanding your goals and taking steps to work toward them can give you an all-important sense of self. Too often, we find someone to love early in life – simply for the reason that we need love and companionship – and we end up growing out of the relationship. By knowing who you are, and what you want out of life, you can avoid the pain of a broken marriage.

What Does Love Look Like to You?

What is your love style? Do you need a lot of freedom and space in your relationships? Do you spend a lot of time on your own, and love it? Or, would you rather find someone to love, and spend as much time as possible enjoying life as a couple? It doesn’t matter what your idea of the perfect relationship is – the point is, understand what you want from love and go for it.

As you think about what you want from your relationship, think in exactly these terms – “what do I want my relationship to look like?” Avoid thinking in negative terms – you’ll be happier in the long run if you keep your thought process positive.

Where To Meet The Perfect Guy

Once you have a good idea of what you want that perfect guy to be to you, then you’re ready to find someone to love. Where you look, depends a lot on who you are looking for!

Once again, it’s time to do some soul searching. Where do you like to spend time? What activities do you like to take part in? It may be that you already enjoy spending time in places where there are plenty of guys who are also ready to find someone to love. Conversely, it may be that you just don’t go anywhere where men are in great abundance. If that’s the case, you will need to come up with a strategy for meeting someone without going to places you’d rather not be.

Online dating has greatly improved over the years. There are dating sites for people from all walks of life. If you’re a religious person, you can sign up on a site that connects people of the same faith. If you like pets or sports, you can find a place to meet someone with similar interests. There are sites for Ivy League grads, and sites for millionaires. There are even sites where you can meet members of the US military if you love men in uniform!

One of the best strategies to find someone to love is to diversify your search. Sign up on more than one dating site, and leave no stone unturned in your local search as well. It might take some work – and you don’t want to settle for someone who is not your ideal match – but if you do the work required, you’re sure to be happy in the long run.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Do you suspect your husband or significant other of cheating? Do you check his wallet? His cellphone? Do you also check his underwear? Have you followed him after work, after he told you that he was going to be late coming home tonight I would suggest that you do all of these things before confronting him of having an affair.

Trust is important in a marriage. but when that trust is in question, tempers rise and nerves are as fine as fiber optic cable lines. Yet, even though you feel this man has wronged you, you hate him, yet love him still. After all he is just a man. Because bounded in his nature, infinite in his desires, man is a fallen god who has a recollection of heaven. That man should stand erect and not be kept erect by others. Mother-in-laws are guilty of this act of betrayal. In their eyes, their son can do no wrong.

But what if he is cheating? The time will come to confront him. Do not attempt this if your children are home. Make sure you two are all alone. Watch his body language. Look dead in his eyes. If he tries to flip the script and use reverse psychology, and starts to accuse you of cheating, then something is truly wrong. Don’t let him make you out to be the villain and he the victim. Women fall for this oftentimes when they are afraid of giving the man an ultimatum.

I can’t speak for any other woman, only for myself. I know me. I would not tolerate my husband’s infidelity. I would probably give him a second chance. But a second chance would be it. Because if he does it again, he’s one egotistical fool who thinks I’ll keep taking him back no matter how many times he’s caught. I believe that I’d be better off by myself than not having respect for myself and my spouse.

My mother once told me that men marry to make an end; women t make a beginning. F.W. Robertson believes; Marriage is not a union merely between two creatures—it is a union between two spirits; and the intention of that bond is to perfect the nature of both, by supplementing their deficiencies with the force of contrast, giving to each sex those excellencies in which it is naturally deficient; to the one, strength of character and firmness of moral will; to the other sympathy, meekness, tenderness; and just so solemn and glorious as these ends are for which the union was intended, just so terrible are the consequences if it be perverted and abused; for there is no earthly relationship which has so much power to enoble and exalt. There are two rocks, in this world of ours, on which the soul must either anchor or be wrecked–the one is God, and the other is the sex opposites.

So my position is this, if your husband is getting his groove on without you, let him know that you can get yours on, too.